Remember Lady Traveler's First RV Road Trip?

What were we thinking?

We weren't.

Two roads diverged in a wood, and I--I took the one less traveled by,

and that has made all the difference.

Our first little motor home at the Wimberley Texas Flood 2015

For those of you who are new to my Lady Traveler blog

here's Part 2 of a little story about our very first

RV Road Trip in 2015.

We didn't plan to buy the 1987 Mallard Sprinter motor home,

but for $5,000, how could we go wrong?

Part 1 and Part 2 blogs are posted on the website:

www.retirementandgoodliving

Part 1, my previous blog on this website, tells how we stumbled across

this little darling.

Read and enjoy!

Relaxing after a long day volunteering with first-response team
Christ In Action (CIA)

Now, after reading my story, perhaps you might want to hit the road

in some sort of RV ... motor home, 5th wheel, trailer ... lots to choose from.

The choice is yours.

Whether you're retired and/or looking for some way to help others,

or you just want to go travelin',

an RV can take you just about anywhere your

little heart desires.

All in a day's work to help bring hope to America's families
Volunteering with Christ In Action 2015 at the Wimberley Texas flood

We traveled in our Mallard Sprint for six months

until we met our beautiful 2004 American Tradition 40-foot home-on-wheels,

Moon River.

That's when we really took off for places unknown.

25+ (I've lost count) states and have loved every minute.

After watching hours of the Travel Channel,

we began experiencing God's beautiful country first-hand ...

... east, west, north south.

We've met wonderful friends of whom I still

communicate via Facebook, blogs, e-mails, and Instagram, 

and even meet again on life's highways!

It is a small world after all.

Lots of states on Route 66, including Missouri to visit son Shawn (4 times).

I love expanding my boundaries.

Rob and I have lived in Sweden and traveled to over 25+ countries,

including living on a World War II ship for 14 months.

(I have my favorites and perhaps I'll return one day to

Israel and/or Italy).

Tuscany, I love you!

Wherever you are, make this a good day ... your best day!
It's your choice.

And ... keep that body movin'!

Teach us to number our days aright,

that we may gain a heart of wisdom.

Psalm 90:12

You can order my book, Lady and the Sea at:

www.sharonleaf.com

or

www.amazon.com

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pRepaRing to tRavel to ...

pRepaRing to tRavel to ...

The view never gets old.

I've downsized. I've simplified.

Now I'm Ready ... to Travel.

Next week I'll be taking a shoRt Trip to

the CaRolina ChRistian wRiteRs ConfeRence in

SpaRtanburg, South CaRolina.

I love spending time with fellow wRiters

and listening to talented, gifted authoRs, editoRs, and otheR

renowned guest speakeRs.

Lady's Loft ... my office. My  iMac is behind closed shutters.
Artwork, books, photos ... all my dear-to-my-heart treasures.

I'm enjoying each and every day for what it has given me.

The lazy, balmy ones,

sunny and waRming to the heaRt and soul.

And oh, the cold, rainy, windy ones

that cause my body to shiver

when I step outside to walk little Miss PRincess PopcoRn 

on the boaRdwalk by the lake.

It's on those 30-degree days that I welcome

the warmth of our cozy condo.

These past weeks have given me much to warm my heart.

Having our son Shawn here for three days lit a fiRe inside me

that has kept me peaceful and somewhat melancholy.

I have many memories to cheRish until we're together again.

Thank you, LoRd, for giving me a very special birthday gift.

I always look forward to the times I can spend with daughteR Jacquie.
She drops by whenever she can,
for hot tea and hot conveRsation.

They're in the midst of building a house.

(Oh, the patience they have shown during this process).

Makes my heart happy to see my book in the Lexington Library
(it was checked out the next day)

Knowing daughter CaRRie (in North Carolina)

and son Jason (in SoutheRn CalifoRnia and Spain)

are happy and doing well

keeps the ambeRs glowing.

Yes, I'm a blessed lady,

thankful to God for allowing me to live anotheR day.

So, what can I give back?
A smile at the marRket.
A hug to a neighboR.
A phone call to a fRiend.
An encouRaging word to someone who is
waiting for good...or disappointing...news.

After reading what authoR/fRiend StaRR(light) AyeRs

shared about me in her inteRview with me yesterday,

I Realized once more how blessed I am to be living my life in full technicoloR!

Please Read when you have a few minutes:

www.starrayers.org/2019/02/23/sharonleaf

And the peace of God,
which passes all undeRstanding,
shall keep your heaRts and minds
thRough Christ Jesus.
Philippians 4:6

I wish you oceans of daily blessings!

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Lady Traveler's Cozy Christmas

Lady Traveler's Cozy Christmas
The most wonderful time of the year!

Unto us a child is given,
A Saviour, Christ the Lord
(my 40-year-old nativity under the tree)

Rob and I are loving our cozy condo on Lake Murray.

Each evening we sit by the fire, admiring our Christmas decorations.

(yes, I had enough energy to decorate.  I can't help myself)

As we sit, we count our blessings.

We are blessed with four wonderful grown kids.

We still call them 'our kids.

Four on-the-go grown grandkids.

Three fast-growing great-grandboys.

Our sweet Popcorn.

And our fabulous friends.

For our age, we are quite healthy.

We keep active, almost too active ...
... not at the local gym, yet ...
just active with every-day chores.

But we do try to take time for our little afternoon siestas.

I'm keeping this blog short,
but I'm including a recent blog I was invited to write at:
www.retirementandgoodliving.com
(my blog "What Now?" can be found under 'blog')

Our cozy villa says, "WELCOME!"

Christmas Eve by the fire -- food, fun, and opening gifts.

The GLITS* gals
*Girls-Living-In-The-South
Me.  Grand Destinee.  Daughter Jacquie

We're already talking about hitting the road!

Until next year,

I wish you oceans of Christmas and New Year blessings!

For there is born to you this day in the city of David 
a Saviour, who is Christ the Lord.
Luke 2:11

www.sharonleaf.com
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Lady Traveler is now welcoming fam and friends to Leaf's Lake House

There is no place like home.

Author unknown?

Thanksgiving Sunset 2018 (untouched)

The heavens declare the glory of God,
and the skies announce what His hands have made.
Psalm 19:1

3 1/2 weeks of packing, tossing, and donating.

Two weeks of unpacking, tossing, and donating.

Then came Thanksgiving.

Our day of relaxation and eating.

and eating. and eating.

Friends dropping by Leaf's Lake House

Sunset from our veranda with Popcorn and friends

Ahh ... the first day in weeks that I've sat down in my new office.
I've really missed writing.

I turned on my iMac and decided to write a quick blog.

Nothing deep.  Just a simple message of

THANKFULNESS.

The recent months have been filled with

hurricanes, tornadoes, floods, and fires.

Our hearts and prayers must continue to

reach those in need, both near and far.

My thankfulness sounds like yours.

Thankful to God for

Family.  Most anyway.

Extended Families: community, church, interest groups (my writing buddies).

Friends.  True friends.  Near and far.

Our homes.  Big and small.

Our country.  Freedom!

The list goes on.

Thank you for listening to this old Lady Traveler who loves

to travel, loves to write ... (who hates to move!) 

but who loves life! 

What do you love to do?

What are you thankful for?

Take a moment to thank God for ...

I wish you oceans of Christmas blessings!

www.sharonleaf.com

Lady Traveler is on the move!

Lady Traveler is Moving!

The gazebo just outside our back patio
overlooking Lake Murray.
A perfect place to write...and dream

This is Lady Traveler's continued story.

A close of one chapter.

The beginning of a new chapter.

I've been wanting to downsize--again--for the past few years.

Robinski and I love our home here on Golden Hills Golf Course.

I've written blogs about the deer roaming on this former dairy farm.

Three years ago we found a little villa (condo) on Lake Murray.

But we couldn't decide if we wanted to leave our cozy home.

We hesitated, and the condo sold.

I knocked on the new owner's door and handed her my business card.

"If you ever consider selling, please call us."

Over the past three years, I would often drive through the small community,

but no FOR SALE sign.

Rob and I would pull in and admire the lovely lake,

and look for a FOR SALE sign.

None to be found.

Until ...

This past September 29th, the Saturday before we flew to So-Cal

Rob said, "Let's pull in and take a quick look."

"I was thinking the same thing," I answered.

"If anything's for sale, lets buy it!"

I quickly answered, "Only if its on the lake side."

No FOR SALE signs.

"What are you doing?" Rob asked.

"Pull over. I'm going to give that lady another business card."

I knocked on the door and the pretty lady greeted me with a surprised look.

I greeted her as I held up my business card, "I don't know if you remember me..."

She invited me in and replied, "I was getting ready to call you.

I'm putting my condo on the market in two weeks and I was planning to call you first!"

Well, needless to say, we shared a moment of shock.

Rob and I returned the next day, took a good look at the 'turn-key' villa.

I took our daughter Jacquie over and she loved it.

The morning before we left for So-Cal we had to make a decision.

"If we hesitate, she'll put that darling villa on the market and it'll be sold

within a week," I reminded my Robinski.

But wait!

There's more!

An hour later, as Rob was pulling out of our driveway our neighbor was walking across the street.

Rob asked if he knew anyone who wanted to buy our house.

By noon our neighbor's friend walked through our home,

and by the time she drove down the street she called and made us an offer on our house!

SO, we sold our house and bought a villa/condo on the lake all in ONE DAY!

October has been a whirlwind for us 70+ year-olds,

but we're taking it all a 'day at a time.' with lots of 'time-outs' to rest.

I tell you this story to encourage you that God knows your heart's desires.

Hold on to those dreams and keep the faith!

Seek the Lord, trust Him, and He shall direct your path.
Surely goodness and mercy shall follow you all the days of your life ...

Psalm 23:6

I'll be off social media until I get settled in.

Then I invite y'all to come over and enjoy the tranquil view of
Lake Murray from our veranda.

I wish you oceans of dreamy blessings for this Thanksgiving season!

www.sharonleaf.com

"Lady on the Run" is running!

I'm late in posting this blog because

I FORGOT to post it!

Did you ever have those days, weeks, or even months of forgetfullness?

Well, this was my month.

But here it is anyway.

And Be sure to read the last paragraph!

My first 10K run 1978
The Los Angeles Marathon
finishing in the Los Angeles Coliseum!

My first half-marathon with my friend Mary.
Rose Bowl Marathon 1979

My running days in the '70s


This was a special week for me.
I finished my proposal for
LADY on the RUN.
I emailed the proposal
to an agent who was referred to me.
Scary and freeing at the same time.
Click!  Send!  Done.

Now I'm taking a few deep breaths,
throwing a few items in my carry-on,
and flying to California
to my 55-year-high school reunion!

In my spare moments, I sit here and
create a new FaceBook page titled,
Lady on the Run with Sharon Leaf
Not much on it yet, but it's fun to
DREAM.

As all writers know,
there are many facets of writing.
Dreaming.  Creating.
Writing.  Working.
Re-writes.
Marketing via
Facebook.  Blogging.
 Instagram.
Pintrest.  On and on and on.
Editing.  Submitting.
Waiting.
And of course a few (or more) rejections.

Many women tell me,
"I want to write a book but I don't know where to start.
I answer,  "Just write.  Write.  Write."
You can do the rest as time goes by.
Keep writing.
Join a critique group.  A writers group like  Word Weavers.
Attend writers conferences, workshops, retreats.
Always read.  And learn.

And with that, I shall close for now.

I wish you oceans of blessings!


"Let us run with patience the race that is set before us.
Hebrews 12:1


UPDATE:
My So-Cal trip was a blast!
It was a wonderful experience seeing my old Downey High School buddies!
We had a blast recalling all the memories.
Because of FaceBook we can chat and visit
when we have a few minutes here and there in our busy lives.


BIG UPDATE: The day before we flew to So-Cal we ...
sold our house ...
and bought our long-awaited condo on Lake Murray!
And that's what my next blog is about,
so stay tuned!
At the moment I'm neck-deep in boxes~
moving day is this Thursday and Friday!
EEEEEEK!!!!!

www.sharonleaf.com 

To order LADY and the SEA  and/or  LADY on the RUN go to:

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Lady Traveler says Ciao! from Italy ... Part 2

Italy in the Fall


When you're traveling, you are what you are right then and there.

People don't have your past to hold against you.

No yesterdays on the road.  Enjoy that luxury.

Part 2
Our European Trip September 2017

On a hill overlooking Florence, Italy

After arriving in Rome--smooth flights, by the way--
we hopped a train and two hours later we arrived in Florence.


Although we were now on Italian time--6 hours ahead of South Carolina time--
I was all eyes from the moment I stepped off the plane until we
arrived in Florence.



I cannot describe my love for this city.

Pictures cannot capture the beauty of the architecture.
The people.  The food.

The land.

Eleven days in wonderful Tuscany. 

Rob and I made each moment count.

Whether we were strolling cobblestone streets,

savoring the food in outdoor cafes (the best spaghetti I've ever tasted),

or touring the hills of Tuscany in our 1972 Fiats,

we soaked in the glory of each day.

Due to circumstances beyond my control,
I couldn't log into my blog so I was six weeks without blogging.
But I did write in my journal.  Whew!

Sometimes less is more, so this blog is focused more on the visual and less on words.

The street where we lived for eleven days.
Our flat was just above the Gucci Store.
"Temptation, get away!"

Three flights of stairs brought us to our one bedroom flat,
complete with kitchen and washer/dryer,
and a lovely balcony for basking in the late afternoon sun.

A day in the hills of Tuscany in our 1972 Fiats
with son Jason and Xyla.

Our Fiats took us to a hill where we dined el fresco!

Did I mention the out-of-this-world Italian cuisine?
(Did I mention that I gained 10 pounds?)

Who's leaning, me or the Leaning Tower of Pisa?

Another day in the Tuscany hills.
Dining at a local farm/winery.
Another day of delightful dry red wine!

Dining at a Tuscany farm/winery.
Jason, do not touch my pasta!
Xyla, do not touch my wine!

Too much food to post on one blog.
This is one of Xyla's favorites.
It should have been mine, but I just could not resist the spagetti!

The famous bridge across the Florence canal.
Diamonds galore in blocks of jewelry shops.
Xyla, Rob, and me sharing a cozy moment.

We had the luxury of taking our time to enjoy each day.

Coffee and light breakfast in our flat.

Morning touring at our own pace.

Stopping for a relaxing outdoor lunch.

Home for a shower and afternoon siesta (the perfect way to deal with jet lag).

Then venturing out in the evening for a late dinner 'cause

that's what they do in Europe ... dine late, and stay late!

Now, my suggestion:
Go make your own memories.

Discover new territory.

Learn from your own experiences.

Whether in a foreign country, or in your own neighborhood,

gather pictures to look back on when you're

relaxing in your rocking chair on the front porch,
or, like me, chilling on my backyard screened portch.

See you next blog in ...

SPAIN!

The heavens declare the glory of God,

and the skies announce what His hands have made.

Psalm 19:1



Thank you, Jason and Xyla

www.sharonleaf.com

Lady Traveler tips on preparing you for your next journey

When preparing to travel, lay out all your clothes and all your money.

Then take half the clothes and twice the money

Overnight bag purchased in Istanbul  2008 

Robinski and I are on the road in our motor home, Moon River.

We'll be gone for two months.

Popcorn ready to hit the road in Moon River,
our 40-foot American Tradition motor home

Traveling is fun!

Preparing for the journey is not so much fun.

However, preparation is necessary to entail a successful and fun trip.

Whether we travel near or far,

whether for two months, two weeks, or two days,

we need to throw something in a suitcase, a backpack, or a bag.

 Two week trip to Costa Rica  June 2014
Rob's backpack.  My backpack.
And a large purse (already in our rented little SUV)

Most of you know the necessities ... don't you?

Toothbrush, toothpaste, make-up, and oh, yeah,

underwear.
At one time or another, I've forgotten all of the above.

Actually, wherever we travel, 

we can buy almost anything we need 

at a nearby store.

Except, perhaps, in some third-world countries.

I remember Siberia quite well
where I had to carry my own toilet paper.

Two week trip to Paris  September 2014
My carry-on and a large purse.
Rob: one carry-on and small backpack

I can give more packing details upon request,

(leave a comment and I'll be happy to answer)

but I feel the most important aspect of any trip is to

prepare emotionally and spiritually.

Many surprises can occur along our journey.

If I haven't spent time in prayer and reading my Bible,

I can easily come undone.

Just ask Robinski.  On second thought, please don't.

Now, don't fret ... I'm not talking about spending hours on your knees

(although I'm sure you'd come away lighter and happier),

And I'm not saying you must read your Bible for hours at a time

(although you'd most likely come away stronger and mightier).

Begin right where you are.

Believe me, a little is better than nothing.

I usually read a variety of one-page devotionals in a sitting,

then I say a prayer similar to The Lord's Prayer.*

My bags are packed, now I'm ready to go.  Are you ready to go ...

... to another country ... to a different state ... to the next town?

It's not that difficult at all, so ...

Here's wishing you oceans of travel packing!

Please feel free to add any suggestions that you may have
in the comment box below.

(To remember the words, I'll sing the following scripture as I write 

... so glad I'm alone, except for Popcorn, and she's hiding under the bed)

*THE LORD'S PRAYER

*Our Father, who art in Heaven,

hallowed be thy name.

Thy Kingdom come, thy will be done,

on earth as it is in Heaven.

Give us this day, our daily bread,

And forgive us our debts, as we forgive our debtors.

And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil.

For thine is the Kingdom,

and the Power, and the Glory,

FOREVER.

Amen

Matthew 6:6-13

www.sharonleaf.com

Lady Traveler's Travel Tips wherever you may wander

When preparing to travel, lay out all your clothes and all your money,

Then take half the clothes and twice the money.

One of my favorite summer shirts you'll see in many of my RV travels
(Kentucky Lakes, Kentucky 2016)

There are hundreds of websites, U-tubes, and such
that focus on various travel topics.
but I thought I'd share a few of my own personal thoughts to make
packing a little more personal.
Today I'll write about wardrobe tips for your upcoming summer trips.

When packing clothing for a long or short trip,
take a look at what you packed, then cut it in half.
I promise you won't wear half of what you packed so no need to
add work to the process.
When there is climate changes involved, packing can be a bit more challenging.

A favorite t-shirt-- wash-N-wear items to throw in the washer-dryer in our 40' motor home
(Aspen, Colorado 2016)

We drove our motor home to California last September,
so shorts, a few of my favorite t-shirts, and my favorite pair of 'safe' sandals
were my priority wardrobe.
Fortunately, the weather was warm and beautiful on our 6,000 mile, 2-month journey.
(In colder weather I pack a sweater, a pair of jeans,
and a pair of boots incase the weather turns cool).

The most important thing to wear everywhere is your
SMILE!
Your smile will outshine anything you will wear.
So don't forget to pack it!

See? I wear the same t-shirts over and over and over.
 (in Zion, Utah)

My only piece of luggage when traveling international to warm countries such as
Belize and Costa Rica is my faithful backpack on wheels.
For cooler countries, such as Paris, London, or Scandinavia,
I roll everything in a carry-on, take a large purse, dress in layers,
carry my coat on the plane, and wear my boots.
Look for websites and u-tubes for packing information.

My very favorite shirt; I wear it everywhere.
I love Paris! (2014)

I wear and pack very little make-up.
I use facial wipes to cleanse face every night,
smear on lots of lotion, and drink gallons of water.
We love to eat at local restaurants in every town and country,
so I keep my Isagenix shakes and vitamins nearby to keep me on the straight and narrow.

I love Paris when I eat!
(Dreyer Island, SC)

So whether you love to travel,
enjoy watching TV travel programs,
or just enjoy reading about traveling on blogs, hopefully mine,
I'm happy to have you on board.

We'll soon be heading to the beach for two weeks.
I'm looking forward to relaxing days of reading, wRiting, walking, blogging,
eating, swimming, meeting new friends ... sound fun?
Please come along!
You can find more about my travels on my website
www.sharonleaf.com

A few more important tips:
#1: Before we leave our house, we call our local police department.
They'll drive by our house several times a day or night, at random times.
#2:  We contact our local post office to hold our mail.
#3:  We have a trustworthy neighbor that keeps an eye on our home.
Now, we're off to a great start!


You gave me life and showed me kindness,
and in your providence watched over my spirit.
Job 10:12

Whether you travel around the world or around your block,
I wish you oceans of travel blessings!

Lady Traveler celebrates 71st birthday -- traveling!

Lady Traveler celebrates 71st birthday...traveling!

Winter deco lingers at my house through January

"Happy Birthday to me,

Happy Birthday to me,

Happy Birthday, dear Sharon,

Happy Birthday to me."

And many more....

Yum!

Christmas is past,

so winter rings in my birthday with a shout,

"Another year older!"

Actually, I'm one of those gals who don't mind getting older.

It's better than the alternative.

(you've heard that famous saying many times, I'm sure)
When people ask what my secret is to a sassy senior life, I whisper,
"I won't let that old lady in."

One of my favorite Christmas gifts:

You know me and my coffee.
We've walked hand in hand through life for 55 years. 

My 70th year was one of my favorites.

In a nutshell:
I celebrated early with both my son and daughter here to 'party-down' with me.

Summer of 2015, early 70th birthday celebration with Shawn and Jacquie
Boating on Lake Murray, karaoke night, and lots of cafe hopping.

Then in January 2016 Rob and I took a leap and bought a beautiful
American Tradition motor home.

Our motor home, Moon River
(ornament: gift from daughter Carrie)

 We hit the road to Hunting Island, SC, then to Dreher Island.

In February I met some wonderful ladies when I spoke at a women's brunch.

In April I went to the hospital and came home with a bionic knee (replacement).

Since May we have traveled through 22 states, at last count.
Okay, as I'm writing this, I can see that this is going to be more than a nutshell,

so you'll just have to read my previous blogs of 2016 for more details.

I love campfires!

As I write, I'm back here at Dreher Island for twelve days,

enjoying God's beautiful creation,

Writing. Remembering. and Hoping.
Writing:  blogs, 'thank you's' to birthday wishers, and my book, LADY on the RUN.
Remembering:  the wonderful memories of my 70th year gone by.
Hoping: for a better tomorrow, a brighter future.
Hoping: to do my small part to make America great again, hand in hand,
with all my fellow Americans.

Rob and I are in the process of planning my 71st year.
Lots of traveling involved.
Places to see.  People to meet.
I hope you are part of my journey.
You can follow me on my Facebook page and my blog.
Or just hop in Moon River with us and travel to places unknown!

I wish you oceans of 2017 blessings!

Seek ye first the kingdom of God,
and his righteousness;
and all these things shall be added to you.
Matthew 6:33

www.sharonleaf.com

Lady is combining Surgery and Traveling

On the road to Myrtle Beach, SC three weeks after surgery

Since having my knee replacement surgery on April 18th

I haven't had the energy to do much,

including writing.

I'm happy to report that my surgery was a success 

and I'm mending well.
Don't get me wrong...I'm in pain,
swollen, and get tired at the drop of a ball cap,
but I won't complain because all of the above is part of the
healing process.

Day 2 in hospital: It takes two to hold this lady down

My first doctor's appointment three weeks after surgery:
my surgeon told me that he wished all his 

patients healed as good as me.

I take that as a blessing from the Lord, and a compliment from my surgeon.

My physical therapy continues at home,

which can be quite painful.

But as the saying goes,

No pain, no gain.

So I continue.

'Moon River', our American Tradition coach,
is our home away from home.

So three weeks after my surgery and

a visit to my surgeon,

Rob and I hit the road to

attend the 7-day annual

American Coach Association Rally in

Myrtle Beach, SC.

Rob did everything to prepare for this trip

while I looked on.

His energy seemed limitless

while I spent most of my time in bed

or in my reclining chair in our sitting room.

The week at Myrtle Beach was relaxing.
I wasn't expected to do much.

the best Physical therapy: relaxing on the beach.

Nighttime inside our RV:
Popcorn in her favorite chair, my recliner.

Instead of heading straight home after the rally,
we drove to Raleigh, NC
and stayed with our new friends
on their 45-acre estate.

45-acre French chateau includes an upstairs ballroom.

We made a few stops along the way home.

including staying two nights in Winston-Salem, NC
to visit our daughter and son-in-law,
who is the head chef at Pintos in Winston-Salem, NC
(the food is delicious!)

I love Main Street in small towns
Wake Forest, NC

As I write this blog, I'm on week-7 since my surgery.
We'll be heading north to Indiana on Saturday
to attend another rally to gather
more valued information, but most of all,
to meet new valued friends.

"Thank you" to all of you who sent my flowers, cards, gifts, and phone calls!

Until I write again,
I wish you oceans of sunny days.

Our road will be smooth and untroubled 
no matter what care life may send;
if we travel the pathway together,
and walk side by side
with a friend.